Previous Appearances & Publications

This is a rather comprehensive list of my previous work. If you are looking instead for my Upcoming Appearances, those can be found here.

TV

History Channel (US) Jan. 2010

Strange Rituals ep. 9 “Rites of Passage”

Five TV (UK) 2009

7 Deadly Sins ep. 6 “Envy”

(I have confirmation from the production company that the episode did in fact air and I’m now trying to track down the exact date, as well as a copy of the segment)

Publications & Performances

Guest Storyteller -“Bare: True Stories of Sex, Desire, and Romance”, Portland ME 8/11/14
Storyteller – “Baste. Rinse. Scrub.” Risk! Podcast ep. 541 
Keynote Address “Inclusion Is Not A Moonshot” for Transcending Boundaries Conference 2014
Regular Contributor and associate editor at The Bilerico Project: View my bio and archives on Bilerico.com
Passionate U Presents: Playing w/Uncircumcised Cocks (complete class on DVD)
“Why I Don’t Try To Prevent HIV (and don’t think you should either)” – SunnyMegatron.com 8/14/12
Photo Installation for the July Art Walk – Portland ME
“PA’s ‘Year of the Bible’ Illustrates A Deeper Political Aim” Pittsburgh’s Out #421, May 2012 
Selected Photo Series, Salacious Magazine Vol. 3 “Leather”
Interview “The TSA Generation Shares Insight and Experience,” Inside TSA Vol. 39 No. 3
Cover Art/Selected Photographs (2011) R Adams, A Gift Of Maggots, Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
“Invoking Consent”, HUGGIN vol 2 p. 16-18
“Witches with Weapons.” New Witch Magazine #18, Autumn 2008
“Buying My Gun the Andvari Way,” (2008) F Arismendi, G Krasskova, Root Stone & Bone. Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Photographs (2010) R Kaldera, Double Edge. Alfred Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Quotations (2005) R Kaldera, Pagan Polyamory, Llewellyn Publications St. Paul MN
Selected Quotations (2009) K Filan, R Kaldera, Drawing Down the Spirits, Destiny Books

Event Programing & Production

2014 Dark Odyssey Summer Fest

Assistant Producer
Programming Coordinator
ION Coordinator

2014 Dark Odyssey Fusion

Assistant Producer
Special Event Coordinator
ION Coordinator
Staff Photographer

2014 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

Assistant Producer
Programing Coordinator
Creative Director
Staff Photographer

2013 Dark Odyssey Surrender

Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer

2013 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp

Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer

2013 Dark Odyssey Fusion

Assistant Producer
Special Events Coordinator
Ordeal Track Co-Coordinator
Staff Photographer

2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

Assistant Producer
Programing Coordinator
Staff Photographer

2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender

Programing Coordinator Production Assistant National Talent Coordinator

2012 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp

Creative Director/Programing Coordinator
Assistant Producer
Staff Photographer

2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion

Special Events Coordinator
Production Assistant

2012 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 

Programing Coordinator 
Production Assistant

2010 Primal Arts Festival

Co-Director of Ritual Programming (w/Del Tashlin)

Internet Video

PassionateU.com 2011-Present

-Playing With Intact Cocks

Kink Academy.com 2010-Present

-Urethral Sounding 
-Playing With Intact Cocks
-Making Your Unusual Fetish Work for You and Your Partner(s)
-Sex, Kink & Disability
-Intro to Needleplay

Workshops & Presentations

2014 The Society Presents: Coming Out Different, Hartford, CT

Out in the World
Living “Outside the Box”

2014 College of the Atlantic, Bar Harbor ME

Sex & Disability

2014 Dark Odyssey Summer Fest, Darlington MD

Sex, Magic, & The Great Outdoors

2014 Trans Spectrum Kinksters, Boston MA

Strategies for Trans/Cis Erotic Play

2014 TES Fest, Piscataway NJ

Intro to CBT
Urethral Insertion Play
Spirituality of Kinky Sex
A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum

2014 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD

The Gay Guy’s Blowjob Practicum
Processing New Experiences
Crafting Sacred Trauma
5 Steps to Becoming A Great Presenter
The Rite of Chance (officiant)
The Ritual of Dark Indulgences (officiant)

2014 Hampshire College

Intro to Erotic Roleplay
Kink & Spirituality

2014 Transcending Boundaries Conference – Inclusion In Action, Hartford CT

Keynote Speaker – “Inclusion Is Not A Moonshot”
Kink & Disability
Opening Ritual
Growing Up Queer From The Parent & Child’s Perspective (w/Ellen Meyers)

2014 University of Southern Maine, Portland ME

Concepts of Kink

2014 Fetish Fair Fleamarket #42 (FFF42), Warwick, RI

Making An Unusual Fetish Work
Kink & Disabilty
Strategies for Trans/Cis Erotic Play
Crafting Sacred Trauma

2014 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Washington DC

The Gay Guys’ Guide To Blowjobs: Now For Everyone (w/Lucas Brooks)

2014 Winter Wickedness, Columbus OH

A Whirlwind Tour of the Gender Spectrum
“Spiritualizing” Kinky Fun

2013 Dark Odyssey Surrender, San Francisco CA

Crafting Sacred Trauma Living “Outside the Box” Living an “Out” Poly Life Needles & Energy: Using the Silver Portal

2013 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp, Darlington MD

The Gay Guys’ Guide To Blowjobs: Now For Everyone (w/Lucas Brooks)

2013 The Floating World, Edison NJ

Living Outside The Box
Living An Out Poly Life
Sex That Hurts: Erotic Genitorture

2013 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD

Crafting Sacred Trauma
Rite of Chance 
Footsteps of Inanna 

2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Darlington, MD

Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover
Trans*/Cis Relationships & Play
Opening Ritual: Connections in Blood

2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME

Genitorture Overview

2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender, San Francisco CA

Penile Anatomy For Play Urethral Sounding Dark Roleplaying (taught w/Lee Harrington) Opening Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)

2012 RACKshop, Burlington VT

Understanding the Gender Spectrum Strategies for Trans*/Cis Play Facilitated Discussion – Playing w/Gender & Gender Roles in Erotic Play & BDSM

2012 Transcending Boundaries Conference, Springfield MA

Living “Outside the Box” Communication for Dating & Scoring The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Hetero-Presumptive Situations

2012 Exquisit Agony & Bloody Ecstasy: Workshops with Wintersong, Pittsburgh PA

“Safer” Bloodplay
Sex That Hurts

2012 Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships at the GLCC, Pittsburgh PA

2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME

Penile Anatomy For Play

2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME

Bridging the Gap – Bringing 50 Shades & More Into Your Erotic Life

2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD

Ordeal Track Facilator
Urethral Insertion Play

2012 Free Spirit Gathering, Darlington MD

(Not) Straight from the QUILTBAG: Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity (teen track)
Piercings and Tattoos: Trendy Decorations with Deeper Meaning (teen track)
Walking Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside of Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone
Breaking Magical Ties
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer (adult track)
The Scourge and the Kiss Ritual (adult track)

2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME

Basic Kink Techniques Overview & Exploritorium 

2012 Turtle Hill Beltane, Darlington MD

Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Honoring Your Personal Darkness
Wielding A Red Wand
Soil of the Past, Flowers of the Future (ritual)

2012 Five College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference, Amherst MA 

Navigating Poly

2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME

Urethral Play – How & Why

2012 February Dark Odyssey WinterFire, Washington DC

Sadistic Needleplace
Communication For Dating & Scoring
Opening Ritual: Summoning Desire
Closing Ritual: Preparing for Emergence
Beyond the Veil: Underworld Journey Ritual (as part of Clan Tashlin)

2012 FFF #38, Providence RI (appearance canceled to do auto accident)

2011 Intro to Erotic Roleplay, Augusta ME

2011 Inservice Workshop on Tourette Syndrome, Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston MA 

2011 Community Production of “Under Milk Wood,” Peaks Island, ME

Playing the roles of: Cherry Owen, Lord Cut-Glass, Organ Morgan

2011 Brimstone II, Asbury Park NJ

Making An Unusual Fetish Work
Needle Predicament Bondage
Living an Out Poly Life

2011 Transcending Boundaries, Springfield MA

Navigating Poly
Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships (Debut Class!)
Growing Up Queer from the Child & Parent’s Perspective (taught w/my AWESOME mom)
Kinky Person Panel

2011 The Society, Hartford MA

Sadistic Needleplay

2011 The Geeky Kink Event, Piscataway NJ

The Mechanical Man (or Woman) in Erotic Roleplay
Cock & Balls a (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Hands-on Needleplay

2011 Dark Moon Rising, Hubbardston, MA

Crafting Sacred Trauma
Dating & Divine HR: A Discussion
Hands on Needleplay

2011 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp, Darlington MD

Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
Cock & Balls: A (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Sex, Kink, and Disability
Ritual for the Breaking of Energetic Ties (CANCELLED DUE TO SITE REPAIRS)

2011 The Floating World, Edison NJ

CBT for (just) One
Being the Sexual Initiator
Crafting Sacred Trauma

2011 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD

-Sex That Hurts
-Being the Sexual Initiator
-Needles & Energy: Using the Silver Portal
-Ritual of Blood, Earth, and Letting Go

2011 (6/10) Intermediate Kink Techniques and Exploration, XXXPosed Windham NH

2011 QueerPlayCon, Hartford CT

-FtM CBT co-taught w/Lee Harrington
-QPC Skill Share: Chemical Play

2011 Kinky Con IV.5, Lee NH

-Mean Things to do to Guys’ Bits

2011 FSA Beltane

Sacred Sex for One
Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Ritual For the Breaking of Energetic Ties

2011 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference Intensive: Sacred & Magical Needleplay w/Wintersong & Del

2011 XXXPosed BDSM Basics & Beyond Seminar Series for April 2011

-Basic Kink Techniques Overview and Exploration

2011 Kink Academy Open House, Cambridge MA

- Chemical Play Demo

2011 New England Dungeon Society Presents: Sex That Hurts w/Wintersong Tashlin

2011 5 College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference

-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-Queer Spirituality

2011 Dark Odyssey WinterFire

-Introducing Your Monster To Your Lover
-Sexual Initiator (now called “Guiding First Times”)
-Guided Meditation Ritual: Guided Journey Into Your Personal Underworld

2010/11 WinterSolstice

-Mean Things to do to Guy’s Bits
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer

2010 Transcending Boundaries

-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Heteronormitive Situations

2010 New England Dungeon Society: Dark Roleplay w/Lee Harrington & Wintersong Tashlin

2010 Seacoast Kinky Con III

-Needle Play 101
-Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover

2010 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp

-Urethral Play 101
-The Spirituality of Kinky Sex
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic

2010 Dark Moon Rising

-Reconciling Safety and Spirituality in Ordeal and Sacred Play

2010 Primal Arts Festival (Presenter & Co-Director of Ritual Programming)

Workshops:
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Foreskin Restoration as a Devotional Practice for Self Healing
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids
Rituals:
-Community Web Hook-Pull Ritual
-Wild Hunt Ritual

2010 Free Spirit Gathering

-Cleansing Without All the Hand Waving
-Magic(k) With Found Objects
-Magician in the Desert: Magic Without Tools
-Soccer Fan at a Football Game: UPG in the Broader Community
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids

2010 NY School Nurses Association Annual Conference

-An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome

2010 FSA Beltane

-Breaking The Ties That Bind
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic
-Cleaning Up the Other Sticky Stuff: Post Magical/Erotic Play Cleansing Techniques

2010 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference: Crafting Sacred Trauma (with Del)

2010 Black Rose Educational Series: Panel Discussion Participant “Self Play”

2010 Shrewsbury High School

-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview

2010 DarkOdyssey WinterFire

-Sex, Kink, & Disability

2009 Dark Moon Rising

-Honoring Your Personal Darkness

2009 Free Spirit Gathering

2009 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp

-Intro to Cock and Ball Needleplay
-Crafting Sacred Trauma
-Energy, Magic, Sex and the Great Outdoors
-Wielding a Red Wand: An Introduction to Magic with Blood

2009 CUSFNorth

-Intro To Needle Play

2009 Shrewsbury High School

-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview

2009 DarkOdyssey WinterFire

-Male Genitorture For (Just) One
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play

2008 Spirit Worker’s Intentional Gathering (SwiG)

-Walking Down Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone

2008 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp

-Getting Your Feet Wet: Erotic Energy Play
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks
-Energy, Magic, Sex & The Great Outdoors

2008 DarkOdyssey WinterFire

-Painful Things To Do With (And To) A Guy’s Bits
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks

2008 The Floating World

-Communication for “Spooky” Erotic Play
-Living an “Out” Poly Life
-Protection for Your “Woo-Woo”, Not Just Your Woodle

2008 Shrewsbury High School

-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview

2007 Keepers Crossing

2007 Dark Moon Rising

-Protection for Your Woo Woo, Not Just Your Woodle

2007 DarkOdyssey SpringFire

-Getting That Magical Toy
-Ostara Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)

2006 NH Pagan Pride

-Intro To Pattern Magic
-Intro To Energy Theory & Practice

2006 National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference

-Transitioning From Home to College

2003-2006 Asphodel Beltane & Asphodel Kingdom Day Weekend

-Various Workshops from the College Of Brigantia’s Willow Root Curriculum

2004- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference

-Leaving Home w/Tourette Syndrome

2003 Asphodel Samhain

-Member of Ritual Design Team & co-officiant

2002 Asphodel Samhain

-Co-officiant

2000- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference

-Living with Tourette Syndrome a Team Perspective

1999- Rhode Island School Nurses Association

- An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome

1999-2003 Officiant for Hampshire College Monthly Moon Circle