Previous Appearances & Publications
This is a rather comprehensive list of my previous work. If you are looking instead for my Upcoming Appearances, those can be found here.
TV
History Channel (US) Jan. 2010
Strange Rituals ep. 9 “Rites of Passage”
Five TV (UK) 2009
7 Deadly Sins ep. 6 “Envy”
(I have confirmation from the production company that the episode did in fact air and I’m now trying to track down the exact date, as well as a copy of the segment)
Publications & Exhibitions
Regular Contributor and associate editor at The Bilerico Project: View a List of My Bilerico Essays
“Why I Don’t Try To Prevent HIV (and don’t think you should either)” – SunnyMegatron.com 8/14/12
Photo Installation for the July Art Walk – Portland ME
“PA’s ‘Year of the Bible’ Illustrates A Deeper Political Aim” Pittsburgh’s Out #421, May 2012
Selected Photo Series, Salacious Magazine Vol. 3 “Leather”
Interview “The TSA Generation Shares Insight and Experience,” Inside TSA Vol. 39 No. 3
Cover Art/Selected Photographs (2011) R Adams, A Gift Of Maggots, Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
“Invoking Consent”, HUGGIN vol 2 p. 16-18
“Witches with Weapons.” New Witch Magazine #18, Autumn 2008
“Buying My Gun the Andvari Way,” (2008) F Arismendi, G Krasskova, Root Stone & Bone. Asphodel Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Photographs (2010) R Kaldera, Double Edge. Alfred Press, Hubbardston MA
Selected Quotations (2005) R Kaldera, Pagan Polyamory, Llewellyn Publications St. Paul MN
Selected Quotations (2009) K Filan, R Kaldera, Drawing Down the Spirits, Destiny Books
Event Programing & Production
2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Assistant Producer
Programing Coordinator
Staff Photographer
2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender
Programing Coordinator
Production Assistant
National Talent Coordinator
2012 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp
Creative Director/Programing Coordinator
Assistant Producer
2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion
Special Events Coordinator
Production Assistant
2012 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
Programing Coordinator
Production Assistant
Internet Video
PassionateU.com 2011-Present
-Playing With Intact Cocks
Kink Academy.com 2010-Present
-Urethral Sounding
-Playing With Intact Cocks
-Making Your Unusual Fetish Work for You and Your Partner(s)
-Sex, Kink & Disability
-Intro to Needleplay
Workshops & Presentations
1999-Present: Educational Inservice and Sensitivity Training on Tourette Syndrome
-For confidentiality reasons I am not permitted to list some of these workshops, but I typically do 1 and 3 per year
2013 Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, Darlington, MD
Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover
Trans*/Cis Relationships & Play
Opening Ritual: Connections in Blood
2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME
Genitorture Overview
2012 Dark Odyssey Surrender, San Francisco CA
Penile Anatomy For Play
Urethral Sounding
Dark Roleplaying (taught w/Lee Harrington)
Opening Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)
2012 RACKshop, Burlington VT
Understanding the Gender Spectrum
Strategies for Trans*/Cis Play
Facilitated Discussion – Playing w/Gender & Gender Roles in Erotic Play & BDSM
2012 Transcending Boundaries Conference, Springfield MA
Living “Outside the Box”
Communication for Dating & Scoring
The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Hetero-Presumptive Situations
2012 Exquisit Agony & Bloody Ecstasy: Workshops with Wintersong, Pittsburgh PA
“Safer” Bloodplay
Sex That Hurts
2012 Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships at the GLCC, Pittsburgh PA
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Penile Anatomy For Play
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Bridging the Gap – Bringing 50 Shades & More Into Your Erotic Life
2012 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
Ordeal Track Facilator
Urethral Insertion Play
2012 Free Spirit Gathering, Darlington MD
(Not) Straight from the QUILTBAG: Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity (teen track)
Piercings and Tattoos: Trendy Decorations with Deeper Meaning (teen track)
Walking Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside of Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone
Breaking Magical Ties
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer (adult track)
The Scourge and the Kiss Ritual (adult track)
2012 MyeSensuals Educational Series, Arundel ME
Basic Kink Techniques Overview & Exploritorium
2012 Turtle Hill Beltane, Darlington MD
Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Honoring Your Personal Darkness
Wielding A Red Wand
Soil of the Past, Flowers of the Future (ritual)
2012 Five College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference, Amherst MA
Navigating Poly
2012 MyeSensuals Education Series, Arundel ME
Urethral Play – How & Why
2012 February Dark Odyssey WinterFire, Washington DC
Sadistic Needleplace
Communication For Dating & Scoring
Opening Ritual: Summoning Desire
Closing Ritual: Preparing for Emergence
Beyond the Veil: Underworld Journey Ritual (as part of Clan Tashlin)
2012 FFF #38, Providence RI (appearance canceled to do auto accident)
2011 Intro to Erotic Roleplay, Augusta ME
2011 Inservice Workshop on Tourette Syndrome, Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston MA
2011 Community Production of “Under Milk Wood,” Peaks Island, ME
Playing the roles of: Cherry Owen, Lord Cut-Glass, Organ Morgan
2011 Brimstone II, Asbury Park NJ
Making An Unusual Fetish Work
Needle Predicament Bondage
Living an Out Poly Life
2011 Transcending Boundaries, Springfield MA
Navigating Poly
Exploring Dynamics in Trans/Cis Relationships (Debut Class!)
Growing Up Queer from the Child & Parent’s Perspective (taught w/my AWESOME mom)
Kinky Person Panel
2011 The Society, Hartford MA
Sadistic Needleplay
2011 The Geeky Kink Event, Piscataway NJ
The Mechanical Man (or Woman) in Erotic Roleplay
Cock & Balls a (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Hands-on Needleplay
2011 Dark Moon Rising, Hubbardston, MA
Crafting Sacred Trauma
Dating & Divine HR: A Discussion
Hands on Needleplay
2011 Dark Odyssey Summer Camp, Darlington MD
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
Cock & Balls: A (re)Introduction (which has since been renamed Penile Anatomy For Play)
Sex, Kink, and Disability
Ritual for the Breaking of Energetic Ties (CANCELLED DO TO SITE REPAIRS)
2011 The Floating World, Edison NJ
CBT for (just) One
Being the Sexual Initiator
Crafting Sacred Trauma
2011 Dark Odyssey Fusion, Darlington MD
-Sex That Hurts
-Being the Sexual Initiator
-Needles & Energy: Using the Silver Portal
-Ritual of Blood, Earth, and Letting Go
2011 (6/10) Intermediate Kink Techniques and Exploration, XXXPosed Windham NH
2011 QueerPlayCon, Hartford CT
-FtM CBT co-taught w/Lee Harrington
-QPC Skill Share: Chemical Play
2011 Kinky Con IV.5, Lee NH
-Mean Things to do to Guys’ Bits
2011 FSA Beltane
Sacred Sex for One
Communication for Magical Erotic Play
Ritual For the Breaking of Energetic Ties
2011 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference Intensive: Sacred & Magical Needleplay w/Wintersong & Del
2011 XXXPosed BDSM Basics & Beyond Seminar Series for April 2011
-Basic Kink Techniques Overview and Exploration
2011 Kink Academy Open House, Cambridge MA
- Chemical Play Demo
2011 New England Dungeon Society Presents: Sex That Hurts w/Wintersong Tashlin
2011 5 College Queer Gender & Sexuality Conference
-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-Queer Spirituality
2011 Dark Odyssey WinterFire
-Introducing Your Monster To Your Lover
-Sexual Initiator (now called “Guiding First Times”)
-Guided Meditation Ritual: Guided Journey Into Your Personal Underworld
2010/11 WinterSolstice
-Mean Things to do to Guy’s Bits
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
2010 Transcending Boundaries
-Strategies for Everyday Activism
-The Unintentional Closet: Queer Identity in Heteronormitive Situations
2010 New England Dungeon Society: Dark Roleplay w/Lee Harrington & Wintersong Tashlin
2010 Seacoast Kinky Con III
-Needle Play 101
-Introducing Your Monster to Your Lover
2010 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Urethral Play 101
-The Spirituality of Kinky Sex
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic
2010 Dark Moon Rising
-Reconciling Safety and Spirituality in Ordeal and Sacred Play
2010 Primal Arts Festival (Presenter & Co-Director of Ritual Programming)
Workshops:
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
-Foreskin Restoration as a Devotional Practice for Self Healing
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids
Rituals:
-Community Web Hook-Pull Ritual
-Wild Hunt Ritual
2010 Free Spirit Gathering
-Cleansing Without All the Hand Waving
-Magic(k) With Found Objects
-Magician in the Desert: Magic Without Tools
-Soccer Fan at a Football Game: UPG in the Broader Community
-Using the Waters of Life: Magical and Spiritual Uses for a Variety of Bodily Fluids
2010 NY School Nurses Association Annual Conference
-An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome
2010 FSA Beltane
-Breaking The Ties That Bind
-The Tiniest Athame: Using Needles For Energy Work & Magic
-Cleaning Up the Other Sticky Stuff: Post Magical/Erotic Play Cleansing Techniques
2010 FSA Beltane Pre-Conference: Crafting Sacred Trauma (with Del)
2010 Black Rose Educational Series: Panel Discussion Participant “Self Play”
2010 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2010 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Sex, Kink, & Disability
2009 Dark Moon Rising
-Honoring Your Personal Darkness
2009 Free Spirit Gathering
2009 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Intro to Cock and Ball Needleplay
-Crafting Sacred Trauma
-Energy, Magic, Sex and the Great Outdoors
-Wielding a Red Wand: An Introduction to Magic with Blood
2009 CUSFNorth
-Intro To Needle Play
2009 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2009 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Male Genitorture For (Just) One
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play
2008 Spirit Worker’s Intentional Gathering (SwiG)
-Walking Down Someone Else’s Road: Working Outside Your Pantheon and Comfort Zone
2008 DarkOdyssey SummerCamp
-Getting Your Feet Wet: Erotic Energy Play
-Foundations of Energy Work & Play
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks
-Energy, Magic, Sex & The Great Outdoors
2008 DarkOdyssey WinterFire
-Painful Things To Do With (And To) A Guy’s Bits
-Playing With Intact (Not-Circumcised) Dicks
2008 The Floating World
-Communication for “Spooky” Erotic Play
-Living an “Out” Poly Life
-Protection for Your “Woo-Woo”, Not Just Your Woodle
2008 Shrewsbury High School
-Tourette Syndrome: An Overview
2007 Keepers Crossing
2007 Dark Moon Rising
-Protection for Your Woo Woo, Not Just Your Woodle
2007 DarkOdyssey SpringFire
-Getting That Magical Toy
-Ostara Ritual (w/Lee Harrington)
2006 NH Pagan Pride,
-Intro To Pattern Magic
-Intro To Energy Theory & Practice
2006 National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Transitioning From Home to College
2003-2006 Asphodel Beltane & Asphodel Kingdom Day Weekend
-Various Workshops from the College Of Brigantia’s Willow Root Curriculum
2004- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Leaving Home w/Tourette Syndrome
2003 Asphodel Samhain
-Member of Ritual Design Team & co-officiant
2002 Asphodel Samhain
-Co-officiant
2000- National Tourette Syndrome Association Biennial Conference
-Living with Tourette Syndrome a Team Perspective
1999- Rhode Island School Nurses Association
- An Educator’s Guide to Tourette Syndrome
1999-2003 Officiant for Hampshire College Monthly Moon Circle
